Recently I thought that I was unable to attain an erection in bed with a girl whom I was too anxious to be with. However in my last two sexual encounters with two different females, I found that I could maintain a rock hard erection , esp at my age 19, and keep one as long as I needed, however. as SOON as I went to get a condom or put one on. my penis would start to get limp, weak and soft…pretty much kills it.
I cant explain why my penis is so afraid of condoms, I had sex unprotected with a girlfriend of 1 1/2 years for a while and since then it seems my penis refuses to get on board and try new things only because I refuse to have unprotected sex, HOW do I overcome this erection difficulty fear
A U.S. Research study finds that treating weak & soft erections using condoms with Viagra, Cialis or Levitra restores self-esteem, confidence, relieves depression and performance anxiety. Research shows that Viagra and other treatments for erectile dysfunction are “life-quality drugs,” not just “lifestyle drugs.”
Well all the suggestions that everyone has put forth on two posts are quite good actually, but this is a situation where both of us are quite young, and despite me having sex a few hundred times things are still awkward for my new partner so asking her to do those things might maake her uncomfortable.
I did however manage to tell her that I do have a problem with condoms, and that I hope she sticks with me until things become more comfortable so that I can change her views on sex
May I suggest that you just relax, don’t be concerned about hard erection difficulty and your penis becoming a bit soft. Tell your partner that you are trying to overcome this little problem. May I suggest that you apply just a very little lubricant to the head of your penis before you try to put it on. That will greatly reduce the friction. Also, make sure your condom is one of the lubricated ones.
That’s why you need to take Viagra, it takes away the fear. After taking viagra and you get a good erection it doesn’t go down, believe me I know. I use to have the same fear. You won’t have that condem phobia anymore. There’s nothing like it. Once you get rock hard, erections won’t go down until you ejaculate.
If you do ejaculate early, it won’t be long will before you will be erect again. It will last for hours and you can do a lot in that time. All your fears will be gone, you won’t be afraid and you feel like a man again.