I’m in a new romantic relationship with a guy who, the first time we made love everything was fine. Ever since then, it seems the only time he can’t be ready to perform it’s via my stimulation to him. So if he can maintain his erection readiness via that way, why not when he is trys to go all the way when pleasing me. This is really bothering me. He will be ready and as soon as he starts going all the way, maybe 20 seconds, he loses it. I keep thinking he doesn’t enjoy me, how can I not think this. He swears he does very much enjoy me, that its him and that it will get better. I don’t know what to believe. Whats wrong, what can I do? Thanks, Worried and frustrated

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