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It has almost been a year since we’ve had sex. My guy kept making excuses, some were legitimate when he was sick. He says he loses interest in sex with the same person. He doesn’t seem to be cheating and sort of tries. The last time we did it he had an anxiety attack. His heart raced.

He does see a psychiatrist for that problem. He was married for a short time but his wife left him for this reason. He said they did see a sex therapist. He refuses to see one with me, saying that it was too unpleasant/painful. I asked him if he masterbates and he said he does it nightly, so he can have an erection and he sometimes gets and erection in the morning.

He has used viagra a few times but says it gives him a headache and other side effects and it didn’t seem to help anyway. He says he cares about me, but after what he revealed about masterbating I’m beginning to loose hope. Is the masterbating addiction affecting his sexual performance? What can I do to help for his compulsive addiction and lost of sexual desire for me? Is there any hope (I really enjoy him otherwise)?

Annon K edited question