What would cause my husband to have an penile erection, but then lose it? it happened 3 different times during foreplay. it has never happened before. I`m not over weight 146 and wear size 6. Please help me !
Does he need his testosterone level checked out?
Don’t panic! It is not unusual for men to lose it because of some penile erection problems at some stage in their life. Many things can effect penile erections including performance anxiety, stress, tiredness, cigarettes, drugs, alcohol and depression.
Don’t make a big deal out of it, he is probably feeling bad enough about it as it is without worrying about what you are thinking, just assure him that its ok; its no big deal. If he has too much pressure to sustain an penile erection then he worries – hence the loss of his erection. Its a catch 22 situation. If it becomes a regular occurence then think about him visiting a doctor for a checkup just be sure that there is no physical problem.
If your husband does not have a desire to increase his performance drive of your sex life then there may not be a lot that you can do to improve your lovemaking. Does he have a lot of stress in his life, itcan really affect the libido. I would encourage him to have his testosterone hormonal level evaluated just in case that is the problem.
If there is no underlying reason as to why he doesn’t want to make love then make it your mission to raise his libido. If it is just intercourse that he is against experiment with other forms of lovemaking together.