My husband masturbates frequently on a regular basis. He says seminal release has to be done regularly for sperm build up prevention and not sexual stimulation. We have been married for 22 years and have not had intercourse more than once a month for about 15 years now. about the only time he really wants to have intercourse is if we watch p*rn so i do so i can have sex, i won’t denie that i do get turned on by p*rn but I don’t need it to make love to my husband, is it true about the need for men to have seminal release, i just want to know, thanks for any help.
His seminal ejaculation fluid does not need to be released. It is a myth, that males “must ejaculate” regularly to get rid of built-up sperm. The “unused” semen is absorbed back into the body. His body will simply stop producing more semen if he does not masturbate or have sex. Frequent masturbation will not increase his seminal ejaculation fluid load or the ability for how far he can shoot it.
A man’s recurrent involuntary urge for sexual activity can hit him at any moment – regardless of his ongoing activity, his situation or the availability of female company. For example it can happen while he is walking down the street, attending a book lecture, watching a movie or driving a car. It is very frustrating for a man not to be able to have sexual intercourse when sexual arousal is activated. Men do not willingly consider masturbating to be an acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse.
Masturbation might not really be a bad thing, as for the marriage. Some times it can be a mental thing just like smoking you feel you have to do it. A man can be the most devoted hubby but still be addicted to p*rn and it can not have anything to do with the marrage, he just has to have masturbation ejaculation seminal releases. Frequent self-pleasuring can also be a addicted habit too hard to break almost like a drug. It is not a personal attack against the wife.
Most husbands do masturbate and some hide it because they are ashamed. Men just some times need to play with it, some men beleive the more they do it the longer they can sustain when they are with their wives. There are so many reasons a man can come up with and some just say I just like it. Often the reason a man masturabte is unknown to them. To tell you the truth I know mine masterbate but he hides it, embarrassment, I have never said anything to him I figure after all this time I know where his mind is at and it is just something men do.
maybe ur not very good in bed.
Honestly I don’t want to cause problems with you and your husband but that is an obvious sign that he has some p*rnography addition issues, not happy in the marriage etc. I talked to counselors about this and priest etc and that’s the answers I got.
I didn’t believe my husband would do anything like that because he was so against p*rnography etc but in the end I found masturbation ejaculations evidence and he fessed up. Since then we have our marriage back but it took months and changing our lives to live for God.The trust issues are hard to overcome. Also this is emotional abuse to you because you want him more and he’s not responding to you but wants sex without you.