We have been married for 34 yrs.:
He never wants to hardly to touchs me unless I ask him too! I would love for him to love me allover like he use too! And he hardly wants intimate sensual love like before, plus he smokes, I think he would rather give up making love then his smoking. I just want to be touched sensually again all over like he use to, I`m the one that always issue intimate love making 98% of time and I`m tired of it.
I`m not over weight 146 and wear size 6. Please help me !
Does he need his testosterone level checked out?
It sure sounds like low Testosterone to me. He can get salvia testing (in home) to check his level. My husband and I found testosterone creme (natural) online and have been using it for several months, it started working in a couple of weeks. We were having sex maybe Once a week initiated by him because my libido was way down, now I am initiating and it’s 6-9 times a week.
Also feeling more upbeat, low T can make you depressed.
Smoking also messes with your hormones; I can’t get my mom to quit either. Maybe he could try those electronic cigarettes, I turned my friends (married couple) on to them and they’re happy with them. Best wishes.
Intimate love drive
My husband does not want or desire to make intimate love but maybe every couple of months. But it has now been 7 months and he still does not desire for sensual love making. He is not going after anyone else.
I am at a loss to know what we can do about his performance drive problem. When we do finally make love he finishes before I can be satisfied. Then I never know when it will be that we will have sexually satisfying lovemaking.
Can someone help me to know what or if something can be done to help me and my husband.
Love making factor advice
Well intimate sex simply cannot be good unless it has a perfect combination of kissing foreplay, physical stimulation and final sexual intercourse.
This entire intimate sensual love making factor should be completely synchronized in order to have better sex. Better sex is all about erotic enjoyment which arouses your partner into multiple orgasms.
Everybody dreams about having and giving the best sex sessions ever. Sex can be a major problem for many people, and not because they aren’t getting any, but because they don’t sexually perform very well.
He has Male Performance Anxiety Disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble “getting it up”).
Usually what happens is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is orgasm or pleasing the partner with an orgasm, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that they’re having as opposed to the final goal — more focusing on the process rather than the end product.
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If your husband does not have a intimate sensual desire to increase his performance drive of your sex life then there may not be a lot that you can do to improve your lovemaking. Does he have a lot of stress in his life, and smoking can really affect the libido. I would encourage him to have his testosterone hormonal level evaluated just in case that is the problem.
For the fellows whose bodies make very little amount or no testosterone, topical gel or a herbal booster Cream treatments may offer substantial benefit.
Another cause may be that due to his smoking problem he may avoid making love because of the way you feel about it. There are smoking treatments available, perhaps you can look into some of this for him? If there is no underlying reason as to why he doesn’t want to make love then make it your mission to raise his libido. If it is just intercourse that he is against experiment with other forms of lovemaking together.