My husband and I have had not the greatest sex life. He does not want or desire to make love but maybe every couple of months. But it has now been 7 months and he still does not desire for intimate love making. He has never pleasured himself and he is not going after anyone else. I am at a loss to know what we can do about his performance problem. When we do finally make love he finishes before he even enters me all the way. Then I never know when it will be that we will have sexually satisfying lovemaking. Can someone help me to know what or if something can be done to help me and my husband.