I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years now. I found out my boyfriend masturbates 3 times a day. he lied about it the first year and finally he admitted it. He says he’s been doing it for over 30 years.
Why would he feel the need to masturbate when he has a woman that loves having sex, would give it to him as many times as he wanted. I love sex myself but masturbation to me is so empty, no phyical contact and an empty cum. please guys tell me whats up with this. I feel I’m not good enough, my self esteem is gone. I get angry when I found he has masturbated in the car or bathroom.
Boyfriend Constantly Masterbates
Thank God I thought I was the only one with a boyfriend that constantly masterbates… I found him in his garage in his
truck… Why do they do this it makes me feel so unwanted?
this i all common dear… it is actually helping your husband not to cheat on you…the truth is man sexual fantasy is way high the u girls imagine… they are tow types of man who are either satisfy masturbating or cheating to fulfill their desire
i have done for almost 6yrs and makes one to feel dirty and separates one from God. it is associated with devil worshiping since devil makes one to feel sexy.
I just want to know – do they actually want to have sex or do they feel obligated and just have sex because they know they should be having sex with their girlfriends?
Habit support therapy
You don’t have any issues and it is not your fault at all. You fellow needs support and help quitting the habit, the
short term process of stopping can be easy but the possibility of a relapse as well. 9 years is a long time of
commitment and shouldn’t be just forgotten that easily. Give him a chance and some time to get the help he needs and I’m
sure things will turn out for the better.
I have had it
It really is nice to know I’m not the only one, I have a high sex drive and the last 2 relationships I have been in they
both have masturbated while I was home instead of having sex with me I am very attractive and it makes me feel really
bad about myself I just don’t understand.
I just am tired of feeling like this and I try to explain it, even if they were to do it and then still have sex with me
I wouldn’t have an issue but after they dont want to be with me. I have had it and am about to get rid of another
relationship because of it. No one should have to feel this way. Its nice to be able to vent and share this with people
Obsessive masturbation interaction
Maybe what he needs for you do is, a obsessive masturbation interaction plan with a professional therapist, friends or family.
Men’s Compulsive Self-Stimulating Treatment
I am in a Sex Offender Treatment program and one of my assignments is to complete a Cycle Snake on Compulsive
Masturbation addiction. What brings self-stimulation on. What are the precursors to this sexual acting out other than
mere boredom? Any help would be much appreciated.
I am so glad I came across this game, I thought I was alone in this. I’ve even tried posting in other forums, and I
always end up being told I have issues. My fellow of 9 years also masturbates, leaves me feeling unwanted, and
hides/lies about it. Recently he woke up from a nightmare of him actually cheating on me with one of his old crushes,
and kept wanting to talk to her the whole entire day but didn’t have the guts to actually do it.
Ever since then I started looking into compulsive masturbation addiction, it all started making sense. I am just wishing
this problem doesn’t get to the point where his fantasies are not enough and needs to go out to get sex from other
women. We are planning to seek counseling in hopes this is actually what he has so we can get help, and not let it end
our relationship. I’m thinking that perhaps too much play will have some kind of injury or impotence effect….
What brings it on
What do you mean by “Cycle Snake”?
Did compulsive masturbation lead you to be a Sex Offender?
Let us know “What brings it on” and “What are the per-cursors to this sexual acting out other than mere boredom?”
We would all like to know the answers to these questions from your personal obsessive experience to stop this addiction.