I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years now. I found out my boyfriend masturbates 3 times a day. he lied about it the first year and finally he admitted it. He says he’s been doing it for over 30 years.

Why would he feel the need to masturbate when he has a woman that loves having sex, would give it to him as many times as he wanted. I love sex myself but masturbation to me is so empty, no phyical contact and an empty cum. please guys tell me whats up with this. I feel I’m not good enough, my self esteem is gone. I get angry when I found he has masturbated in the car or bathroom.

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