Virgin BF erections issues, never had orgasms
I have recently been seeing a guy and he is still a virgin. Whilst messing about, it was evident that he didn’t like me touching him down there when making love. He then admitted to never having an orgasm in his life, apart from in his “wet dreams”. I found this really hard to understand but apparently he has never had sex because he has never satisfied himself ever and doesn’t have a sexual desire or libido to either.
This is honestly true! Basically he gets hard for about a few minutes then goes soft again so sex isn’t quite possible at the moment. Someone said at a clinic he has the ability to it’s just a mental thing. Has anyone heard of a man who has never satisfied himself or orgasm ever? It’s really weird and can anyone help me on this? He’s too shy to seek medical advice and i want sex now.
If your guy is able to orgasm in his “wet dreams” then his reproductive organs are working ok. It sounds like the problem might be both a physical and mental issue. Try this: Have him take a 25mg or 50mg Viagra or generic Viagra prescription drug pill (for the physical aspect) then, after 45-60 minutes with you your clothes on, touch each other and communicate romantically with each other.
Once you’re doing that for a while and you’re comfortable with that, you’ll move to the romantic second stage, where they’ll be caressing and touching and intimate communication without clothes.
The third stage when he has it up is to have make love and to orgasm. The important thing is for him not to focus on the end result but, to focus on what he is doing at the moment.
Male Sexual Performance Anxiety Disorder
Could it be a male Sexual Performance Anxiety disorder?
Performance anxiety disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble “getting it up”) can happen whereby he does get it up, and as you’re about to have romantic love, he loses it and goes limp, or it can be when you’re actually in the course of having intimate love, he loses it and gets soft, or he don’t get it up at all. So it can happen in any of those kind of ways.
Though getting it up hindrance problem can have biological causes, for many the getting it up abilities issue is psychological. Guys performance anxiety can be a serious obstacle to a fulfilling romantic and sensual relationship, but it can also be overcome.
Maybe he wants to save himself for marriage…, Stress can be causing his problem, many different factors can come into play. He needs to be checked for low testosterone levels that can be done with no doctors office visit.
Convince him to see a certified sex psychologist or psychiatrist, or a psychologist or psychiatrist who has had experience in this particular area, to make sure that they’re well-referred and that they’re people who are qualified.