Getting it up without stimulation is a challenge
Hello. I am a 21 year old virgin who is just beginning a sexual relationship with a beautiful girl. We’ve encountered difficulties, and an important question has come to mind: What is a healthy erection?
Most web sites just say that it is being hard enough to penetrate a vagina, but that is nowhere near specific enough. At its peak, how hard should it be? How much should it bend to pressures from different angles? Should it point upwards? Should it require no physical stimulation under otherwise ideal conditions to become this erect?
How quickly should it return to being flaccid, ,limp, weak and hanging once stimulation is broken? I’ve been very worried about how well my penis is functioning, and seeing answers to these questions would help a lad figure out my sexual performance inhibition and erectile dysfunction difficulties.
actually i have been doing masturbation from past 8 yrs. coz of which m feeling sexual weaknesses like bent of my penis downwards which was not earlier,loosen in testes , loosen of foreskin of penis , sperm in urine etc etc……….plz help……… me wt shld i do whether my penis will b normal again…i m very confused plzzzzz……… help
Since your girlfriend is so tight, you can use a condom compatible lubricant for achieving easy vagina penetration.
Here’s a news article that might help:
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Silicone-based lubricants are commonly recommended for intercourse because they do not easily dry out and they are condom latex-safe.
You know I use to have that same problem, trying to reach for the condom real fast before I lose my erection. I have the same focusing problem and keep losing my erection before penetration or shortly thereafter… Although, once I started using Viagra it kept my erection hard for a long time. I had plenty of time to put the condom on and time for extra foreplay. Which my girlfriend really liked.
Have you tried Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or sexual health products or something similar? It might be a good idea to ask a Urologist doctor.
Loose tight erections
I am 26 year old and i got problem that whenever my penis erected then semen droplets starts to come out and soon penis loose its tight erection. kindly help me how to cope with this problem. Whenever i masturbate i ejeculate quickly.
Loosing your focus
The semen droplets are precum and is normal. It cleans out your pee tract before the ejaculation semen fluid. If you loose your tight erection you are loosing your focus. At your age ejaculation quickly is normal, as you get older that won’t be a problem. But, you can overcome that with the stop start method, the squeeze method and drugs.
Low testosterone level
It seems all your parts work ok. You can have orgasm with semen ejaculation fluid and you have morning penis erections. But, to what degree, that may be the question. If you are masturbating often it might be a good idea to lay off that for a week or two, to build up your testosterone production. You may have a low testosterone level. A urologist doctor can run a blood test on you for that. Or, In home testing can be done.