"Male Sexual Performance Anxiety Symptoms And Solutions"
Loses Erections Disorder, Causes and How To Overcome Stress Effects
Guys Erectile Dysfunction Cures, Libido Information, Conditions, Treatments
Getting it up Performance Anxiety disorder symptoms
Male Sexual Performance Anxiety disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble "getting it up")
can happen whereby you do get a penis erection,
and as you're about to have sex,you lose your erection, or it can be when you're actually in the course
of having sexual intercourse, losing the genital erection, or you don't get a erection at
Sexual Encounter Focusing
So it can happen in any of those kind of ways. Usually what happens
is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is
orgasms or pleasing the partner with an orgasm, and not really focusing on
all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, focus more on the
relationship and the sensory experiences that they're having as opposed
to the final goal -- more focusing on the process rather than the product.
Performance Anxiety News
STUDY: Viagra increases self-esteem
United Press International - USA
A U.S. study finds that treating erectile dysfunction restores self-esteem and
performance anxiety. Research shows that Viagra and other treatments for erectile dysfunction are "life-quality drugs."
Masters and Johnson Treatments
There is actually a multitude of different remedy treatments.
One of the treatment cures for
erectile dysfunction that was developed some time ago by
Masters and Johnson is what is known as a sensate focus technique.
Sensory Stimulation Arousal
Through a series of four stages, what a person
begins to learn to do is to stop focusing on the end result, which is orgasm,
and worrying about whether or not you can go ahead and achieve that or
provide your partner with the opportunity to achieve that, and start focusing
more on what the sensory stimulation arousal is like, what it feels like to actually
enjoy being stimulated, what are the ways in which you can go ahead and
pleasure each other, and it takes the focus off of what's happening at the
So you'll start off with a stage where you'll keep your clothes on,
and you'll actually just go ahead and touch each other and communicate with each other.
Once you're doing that for
a while and you're comfortable with that, you'll move to the second stage,where
they'll be caressing and touching and communication without clothes. The
third stage is actually being inside your partner but not thrusting, and
the last stage is actually thrusting. But the focus is on the sensations.
That's why they call it "sensate focus."
Analytical Therapy (or Hypnoanalysis and Hypnotherapy) To Boost Confidence
Analytical Therapy on the other hand, (which is psychotherapy / psychoanalysis using hypnosis) can be very effective in dealing with the more deep-seated problems that many men have.
Though erectile dysfunction (ED) and other losing erections hindrances can have biological
causes, for many the problem is psychological.
Hypnosis (Hypnotherapy or Hypnoanalysis) is often utilized when logic and reassurance aren't sufficient to get those inner thought processes convinced because hypnosis is designed to speak to those inner, more primative areas of thinking.
Consider the use of hypnosis to reduce nagging, self-conscious losing erections thoughts during making love, to foster a more relaxed and confident sense of self, to optimize self-esteem, happiness, hopefulness and boost confidence in oneself .
Medical Drug Treatment And Herbal Cures To Not Lose Erections
Medical Drugs Of Choice Viagra Cialis or Levitra are the drugs of choice if you're going to use a
medication drug treatment
for erectile dysfunction.
It doesn't work to give you an erection. What it does is keeps the blood in the penis. You need to take it a half
hour to an hour before you're going to have sexual intercourse, because it has
to get to your penis. You have to wait for certain metabolic things to
and then you also need to be stimulated. Once you're stimulated,
what Viagra, Cialis, Levitra pills does very nicely -- it works about 80 percent of the time --
is it keeps the blood in the penis, so it really keeps the hydraulic system,
if you will, going and enables people to last longer and have second erections,
that sort of thing.
Herbal cures Approaches are not currently regulated by the FDA. These products give an aphrodisiac effect (help with the loss of sexual desire) rather than improvement with male sexual dysfunction.
Reduce your stress levels and accept the fact that stress and anxiety can cause problems with losing erections sexual performance
Check out your attitudes, feelings, guilt. If you are angry or resentful of your partner or feeling guilty about behaviors that are in opposition to responsibilities or promises to your partner -- knock off the negative behaviors.
Consider medicine alternatives to increase the likelihood of erection. NOTE: This alternative can in some cases also cause a sense of dependence on the medication which may not in fact be anything more than a placebo effect or a self-fullfilling attitude
Go to a certified sex psychologist or psychiatrist, or a psychologist or psychiatrist who has had experience in this particular area, to make sure that they're well-referred and that they're people who are qualified.
I've had two instances where I've lost my erection after about 15-20 minutes and couldn't regain it (mainly because I kept focusing on the fact I lost it) and had one experience where I lost it, but regained it. I also had an experience where I just couldn't get an erection at all. I'd get a semi-erection, but never firm enough to do anything with...
I have obviously been used, all my life this far, to the one person version of sexual arousal (masturbation). However, I am somewhat concerned that this has "programmed" me, and that it is now dificult for me to find the attempted intercourse act sufficiently arousing to actually obtain and maintain an erection.
Problem is, i was just so nervous that i couldn't get an erection. and so made my excuses and left. Is there someting i can take to help me overcome my nervousness, especially in sexual situations or maybe any other ideas???