Reply by: Dr. Warner
It sounds like he has performance anxiety causing his erectile dysfunction problem.
It can happen whereby you do get penile erection, and as you're about to have sex, you lose your erection, or it can be when you're actually in the course of having sexual intercourse as in his case. Usually what happens is that he is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is orgasm or pleasing you with an orgasm, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, he should focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that your having as opposed to the final goal -- more focusing on the process rather than the product.

Where To Begin:
If you want to conquer this problem, find a sexual therapist near you in North America for both of you for professional support and help. A therapist, counselor or educator can guide you along the right path for beneficial results in saving your sexual relationship.

Posted by: john
i used to have the same problem i couldent get an erection no matter how hard i tried. what happend with me is after this happend once i was so worried it would happen again i became very stressed and the problem just got worse. how i overcome this is i tried to put my current disorder out of my mind and just think about my wife at that time. and it worked great i have gained my confidence back and i havent lost an erection yet

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