Anyway, try the PC muscles techniques. Stick with em, it takes a good month or two to really notice the differences -RB

If you are given the all clear by your doctor then you need to try and take some pressure off yourself when having sex. Try to concentrate on just enjoying yourself rather then 'performing', spend more time on pleasuring each other rather than making intercourse your main goal. Guys find that once the pressure to penetrate is gone you will probably have a rock hard erection.

Male Sexual Performance anxiety disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble "getting it up") can happen whereby you do get a penile erection, and as you're about to have sex, you lose your erection, or it can be when you're actually in the course of having sexual intercourse, you lose the genital erection, or you don't get erect at all.

Posted by: Steven
I,m only 17 and i am starting to expierence the same exact thing! Idk what to do though, i cant go up to my parents and tell them i cant get it up during sex! i turn 18 in a couple of months, then i can go to the clinic myself! Is thier any suggestions until then b/c this is a big deal for a male! i feel like a failure to my g/f and myself!

Reply by: paul
Get those hormones going. Get in good physical shape. Excercise, eat healthy foods (no junk stuff), and no drugs.

Posted by: Jason
I have this problem also, but i never used to until the past 2 months. I am 19 yrs old and i shouldn't be having this problem. When my girlfriend and i first started going out i didn't have a problem but then i got out of high school and into the work force and college and its just not getting any better. Also when we first started going out she didnt talk about her ex all to much but in the last 4 months she has just really opened up and she has told me what they had done during intercourse. I just really need some good advice to help me along b/c i just dont feel the same as i first did when we first started going out... i went to the doc. and he prescribed me viagra and it would work for about 10 minutes and then i just lost it.. Any advice people??

Reply by: Nick
Check with your doctor to see if is all right to increase the Viagra dosage you are taking. She is bothering you physicologically with her Ex. Tell her to stop with the talk. Don't let it bother you.

Posted by: Jason
I have told her to stop w/ the talk about her ex but she says im just insecure which i am not... I was taking the 100 mg pills. I guess i could talk with him about all of this again. thanks

Reply by: Nick
It's either that or get a new girlfriend. Good Luck!
You might want to try a different doctor.