Posted by Bindii:
In Reply to: Too Anxious posted by Young and Restless:
First things first, go and have a chat to your doctor - don't be embarrassed they are not the least bit fazed by your questions, thats what they are there for. Have a check up just to make sure that there is nothing physically wrong.

If you are given the all clear by your doctor then you need to try and take some pressure off yourself when having sex. Try to concentrate on just enjoying yourself rather then 'performing', spend more time on pleasuring each other rather than making intercourse your main goal. You'll find that once the pressure to penetrate is gone you will probably have a rock hard erection.