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I cant explain why my penis is so afraid of condoms, I had sex unprotected with a girlfriend of 1 1/2 years for a while and since then it seems my penis refuses to get on board and try new things only because I refuse to have unprotected sex, HOW do I overcome this erection difficulty fear :(?
If you do ejaculate early, it won't be long will before you will be erect again. It will last for hours and you can do a lot in that time. All your fears will be gone, you won't be afraid and you feel like a man again.
Reply by: RichT
I would suspect that you are reacting to a bit of anxiety. I HIGHLY commend you for wanting to practice SAFE SEX and use a condom.
May I suggest that you just relax, don't be concerned about erection difficulty and your penis becoming a bit soft. Tell your partner that you are trying to overcome this little problem. May I suggest that you apply just a very little lubricant to the head of your penis before you try to put it on. That will greatly reduce the friction. Also, make sure your condom is one of the lubricated onces.
Also, you may wish to consider putting a condom on your rock hard penis when you masturbate. In that way you won't feel any embarssment if it does go a bit soft. After your condom is on, then you or your partner can try stimulating your penis again to get it back to its rock hard state.
Reply by: Young and Restless
Well all the suggestions that everyone has put forth on two posts are quite good actually, but this is a situation where both of us are quite young, and despite me having sex a few hundred times things are still awkward for my new partner so asking her to do those things might maake her uncomfortable.
I did however manage to tell her that I do have a problem with condoms, and that I hope she sticks with me until things become more comfortable so that I can change her views on sex ^_^.
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