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Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: Re: loosing my virginity posted by Bindii:
Bindii's response to you was SUPERB!. I agree with all that she said. I too applaud you both for being virgins. Virginity IS very precious and that is the way you are valuing it. Wonderful!
When my wife and I had intercourse for the very first time on our wedding night it wasn't great and awewome. We were both a bit tense and exhausted from the big event of the day. Through the years of learning about each others sexuality and what turns each other on lovin' just gets better and better (and that's 40 years of praticing).
Can she tell if you are a virgin? No. And for that matter some girls do not have a hymen, or have broken it from masturbating, so you must be careful in "judging" whether your partner is a virgin if she has a hymen or not.
This leads to the two essential ingredients in a solid happy long lasting relationship - LOVE and TRUST. There must be BOTH. You have told each other that you are virgins. Believe it. PERIOD. No doubts, no proof, just believe what you have told each other.
If you do have intercourse before you are married, then PLEASE do practice SAFE SEX and use a CONDOM. Intercourse does carry with it tremendous responsibility.
May I suggest that either you or she obtain a lubricant before you do have intercourse. Nothing is worse than being dry and having a difficult time penetrating a woman. Friction does not make intercourse enjoyable for either. My wife and I especially like the lubricant Wet Platinum because it is very slippery and stay slippery for a very long time. Just apply some to the outside of your condom and to the opening to her vagina. It will make intercourse much more enjoyable.
Again, DO pratice SAFE SEX.
