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Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: Husband wants sex with dolls and toys, not me posted by Elena Chavez:<
Hello Elena,
YOU bought him the doll. Why?
"Well I am tired of his doll and an tired of being second best. My husband told me I am fat and dumpy ----". - So you have to work hard to be No. 1, and you CAN do it. Sit down and talk with your husband in a calm, respectful and understanding manner. Listen to what each other says and BELIEVE what each other says.
Tell him you are sorry you ever bought him the doll. Tell him that you would like to lose weight for him, and ask him why he thinks you are "dumpy". That won't be easy, but honest open communication is so very important in a relationship. Ask him why he prefers Julie over you? Is it becuase he fantasizes about having a "perfect" woman? (By the way, she doesn't exist.)
The more I read your post, the more I believe the two of you need to see two professionals. A marriage counselor, and a sex therapist. And I would suggest that you talk to your doctor and ask his opinion on your weight. Are you in the normal healthy weight range, or would he recommend that you lose a few pounds.
SOOooo do some things with your husband. Do the things that both of you enjoy doing (sports, theater, etc.). Also do those things together that you know he really likes doing. Take a class together, anything to get away from "Julie".
I wish you the best, and don't delay in speaking with your husband or seeking professional advice.
