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Premature Ejaculation (Climax) Control Personal Experiences!Posted by Out of opptions:
I’ve been suffering with premature ejaculation (climax) for all of my sexual being now. Not one doctor has found or can tell me how to fix my problem. I've tried creams; condoms, masturbation before sex and the one doctor favorite stop start method. Doctors have even went as far as to say they just don't know any thing to help me. Now after 15 years of marriage my wife and I are beginning to fall apart. Partly because I'm loosing my mind over this issue and she has stopped having sex with me. Who or where do I turn? I'm alone in the world with no one to help or even want to deal with this MENS ISSUE. So here I am turning to this public form looking for any suggestions please?
Let's look at this from a distance. You know the old saying "you can't see the forest because of all the trees", so let's step way back so we can see the "forest".
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About 35% of male men have what you and I know as "premature ejaculation (climax)". I include myself, because I have had the problem for many years, though it is getting somewhat better. Yes, there are many purported ways to learn how to control ejaculation, and with some there is partial success. For my wife and I it has been a matter of acceptance and in a way of using the "problem" to our sexual pleasure benefit. By the way we have been married for 40 years and enjoy our lovin' about once a week to once every other week. No, you are NOT alone in this world. You are not alone in just you having the problem, and you are not alone in having to deal with this by yourself. I must apologize that because of a meeting shortly, I will have to get back to you with the details regarding how my wife and I have handled our "problem". Tonight do tell your wife that you love her. Tell her how much she really means to you. The two of you working together can get back on track. It is a matter of being understanding, understanding PE, and letting your love for one another get you through this. Lovin' is such a wonderful way to show how much you love each other through sexual pleasuring. It is a way for each person to "feel" that love.
I've been thinking about your post regarding your PE "problem". At this point I think it would be best if you could answer a few questions before I respond and provide you with my thoughts. When you have intercourse how long after penetration would you ejaculate? Has there been any change in the duration of intercourse from when you first were married until now? Are you circumcised or uncircumcised? On the averge how long is your foreplay? How often did you have intercourse before your wife stopped having sex with you? When you and your wife would have sex, during foreplay did you stimulate her clitoris manually/orally until she would have an orgasm? How has having PE affected you personally, your wife, and your relationship? I also have a few questions that I would like to have your wife to answer if that is okay with you and with her. When you first realized that your husband had a premature ejaculation problem, what was your feelings and response to him? Did it bother you that he did not last very long? As time went did his having PE affect how you felt about your husband sexually as well as nonsexually. Please add any other information that you would like to provide. Basically I'm trying to understand from each of you what has caused the PE "problem" to become what appears to be a very BIG PROBLEM.
From: "Paul Harvey"
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