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"Premature Ejaculation Increasingly Frustrated In Our Relationship"
"How do I last longer?"
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Posted by Out Of Options:
In Reply to: Re: Re: premature ejaculation control posted by RichT:
WIFE'S RESPONSE(S):
I generally noticed the problem about one-two years into our relationship. During that time, I tried to deal with it through frequent intercourse in an attempt at trying to get the sessions to last longer. That was to no avail as the "Newness" of our relationship wore off and I became increasingly frustrated sexually!!!
Sometime before our fifth year of marriage, I "EXPLODED" about the issue. And, have done so on and off through out the years. I am now at a point were I am continent with our relationship as is...Without it! Everything else "Besides" THAT is just perfect!!! I still love him and consider him as my best friend and companion. However, I somewhere along the years just lost the desire to be with him "Sexually". Basically, his overall performance outside of penetration, for the most part, is worth my attention; i.e. orally and sensually. But, I desire more and I just don't have the patience any more!
HUSBAND'S RESPONSE(S):
1) It lasts about 1 or on a good day 2 minutes.
2) There has been no change.
3) I'm circumcised.
4) Our four play is as long as she let it go on usually about 15 to 20 minutes or usually until she cums unless she stopped me.
5) Stimulation was done in both ways and also with sex toys.
6) It has lowered my self-esteem and self worth as a man and a mate to my wife. She has given up on me as her lover. It has caused us both to start questioning whether we should look out side our marriage even to the point of separation because of our respect and love for each other.
Well there you have it. We both gave our point to this situation. How do I last longer? If you have any ideas or helpful thoughts pleas share them with us. We again thank you for your interest and concern.
Out of Options
Posted by Ray:
I tend to climax sooner than I wish. I have no problem getting aroused but once intercourse begins I climax too soon. Is there an over the counter medication I can purchase for this problem? I am a 25 year ol male.
Posted by Ted:
I like a product called "Stud 100", and no it is not available at most of your local drug stores (but it should be). It is a penile desensitizing spray that contains Lidocaine.
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