Posted by: Nicola
My boyfriend is 54 and seems to have lost his self confidence after the occassional making love problem.
I think he has now convinced himself he cannot achieve intimate readiness for love making. I was considering putting a viagra pill into his drink
(I know he doesnt take any meds or have any health problems). The idea is to boost his confidence and self-esteem and help him
overcome his percieved problem for intimate feelings.
I'm trying to avoid the discussion of the intimate performance problem as i know he will find it embarrasing. If he thinks he can be ready for making intimate love without any sexual problems then I think that will help his 'ego' and self confidence. Any suggestions/comments would be gratefully recieved.
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Reply by: hank
From my personal experience, Viagra did all those things for me when I was having love making problems. It gave me back my self confidence, ego and lifted my self-esteem tremendously.
But, that all happened after I visited my doctor to find out if I had a performance anxiety problem, physical/organic condition, psychological or mixed origin (both psychological and organic) condition. Once my condition was established, my urologist prescribed Viagra.
It is important for the both of you, that you don't let this sexual self confidence problem slip by. He may have to have his testosterone level checked out. Please seek more help and locate a doctor or a sexual therapist near you.
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