Posted by: young and embarassed
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About 2 years ago, I had a double hernia (one on each side) which was very painful and because of the hernia I was rarely able to have sexual performance abilities while I had it. Unfortunately, I noticed the hernia (it felt like a lump, which migrates from the abdomen into the scrotum, in the upper part of my scrotum at first), and never did anything about it, I just assumed it would go away. I ignored it for months, possibly almost a year until it finally got big enough to the point where I needed to get it checked out. (it was between the size of a golf ball and baseball on one side, the other side was like a ping pong ball.) The doctor determined it was a hernia and I had herniorrhaphy surgery to have it fixed a month later.
Ever since the hernia and after the sugery, I noticed my sexual abilities have been limited, seemed to be weaker and far between. It seemed to come and go. I would be able to get a good arousal for a week and then for a week it would be harder to get one. The problems seemingly went away for a little while, but realistically I didn't have a girlfriend so I wasn't very sexually active.
Now the arousal difficulties problem has come back and it's getting to the point where it's very embarassing and my girlfriend thinks it's her. I'm positive it has nothing to do with her. For the past two or three weeks my arousal have been weaker and far between. Sometime I will even lose my arousal during sex.
Truth is, I'm incredibly embarassed about this, and I get more embarassed about it everytime it happens.
I have a feeling the hernia may have affected my ability to get firm arousal in some way, because I ignored it for so long (6 months to a year). I've read that if you leave a hernia for a long time, it could possibly affect your ability to get an arousals like it did while you had the hernia.
I'm too embarassed to talk to my family about this, and I'm too nervous and
embarassed to go to a doctor, so I don't know what to do. I stumlbed across this
message board and had hoped for an opinion or two.
Thank you!
Reply by:jimmy
It sounds like you have a problem of male performance anxiety. But I think you should check with your urologist doctor for guidence cause, it could be mental or physical issues. Of course, to improve the quality of sexual life,
the doctor may recommend you try Viagra or other impotence treatments.
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