Posted by: Theresa -
My husband & I have been married for almost 4 years and it has been few times
that I catched him playing/pleasuring (masturbating) himself. Especially after he watches the porn movies.
One time I walked straight into our bathroom after got home from work and saw him using the lotion to rub/play his penis..., and other times there are masturbation evidences.
I need to know this is abnormal or normal please.
Reply by: MSH
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Compulsive masturbation, like all other compulsive behaviors, is a symptom of an emotional problem and needs to be addressed by a mental health specialist.
Reply by:Carlos -
I must take issue with MSH's response - it may not necessarily be compulsive
masturbation. It is indeed normal for married men or men in relationships to
masturbate, even though intercourse is available. Sometimes guys get a different
kind of sexual plaesure from masturbation, and it doesn't have to take the place of
intercourse - the two can co-exist. It's only a problem if his masturbation is
reducing the frequency of intercourse to the point his wife or girlfriend feels
neglected. So if he's still up for lovemaking most of the time, it shouldn't be an
issue. If he'd rather masturbate, then talk it over with him, find out what he's
feeling & why. Maybe there's something the two of you can do to spice things up -
possibly INCLUDING masturbation (mutual or solo) in your sex play. Good luck...
Posted by: wk
I have a question, is it necessary for your partner to sneak out of bed, lay on the floor in the bedroom
and play with ones self if your partner is right in the room?
I'll lay down sometimes and act as if i'm sleeping and have awoken to him masturbating
on the floor instead of asking me do I want to have sex I don't understand but, if I choose
to masturbate there's always a comment or constent interruption. Please help.
K.W.
Reply by: stinky
I would never be that rude to my women in the bedroom.
I think he has issues you should confront him on. Either you arn't able to satisfy him, he
has something to hide or has a compulsive disorder. Beat it out of him.:-)
Posted by: J
I have a question. Is it normal for happily married man to be turned on by webcams and porns and masturbate.
Am i just being jealous or self-conscious? It makes me think I am not worthy for him, that he would rather look
at these women on the computer or tv (that problably have very STD alive) then his wife, the mother of his child.
Am i overreacting?
Reply by: Ken
No, You are not overreacting. You are not at fault.
He probably has a obsessive compulsive disorder for porns and masturbation which needs to be address by a professional healthcare specialist.
Find sexual therapist near you.
He should get his mind off porn and masturbation now that he is married and take responsibly to his family. Suggest a hobby for him to get his mind focused on something productive.
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