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Posted by chad:
I don't know if anyone can help... Ever since I have been able to be with a
woman, either sexually or just "make out" I have been having difficulty. I am 29
years old and I have been married for almost 2 years. Since I have been married it
has been more of an issue for me.
I find more enjoyment in masterbating or helping each other achieve orgasm in other
ways other than just through intercourse. I enjoy sex but would rather masterbate
or if Im with a woman would rather have oral or masterbate each other to orgasm.
Although many times if I was given a choice Id rather masterbate. Even after
ejaculating I cant get it up again for several hours even though I want to. Since I
have been married I find myself less and less interested in sex. It doesnt help
that my wife has a very high sex drive either.
Sex for her is an incredible experience and for me it's not. Almost from the moment
I penetrate her she will have an orgasm and then will have several of them while Im
inside her. Then when I cum she is ready again and I am not for several hours.
After sex whether with my wife or other women I have been with I have never felt
like they have afterwards. I enjoyed it yes but not to the degree that my partners
have. My greatest enjoyment in sex is pleasing and pleasuring the woman I am with.
But at the same time I want to enjoy it as well. I don't know if any of this makes
sense to anyone. If so please email me directly chad_shober@yahoo.com...Thank you.
Reply by: john
Do you take any antidepressant or other prescription medicines? Some of these cause mood and self confidence side effects problems.
Did you try Viagra Cialis or Levitra? These really helped for my self confidence.
Also it might be a good idea to have your testosterone level check by a urologist doctor. Try not to masterbate for a couple of weeks. That will build up your testosterone production so you maybe able to get a penis erection a second time after you orgasm. Of course you know, the older you get the harder it is to do.
If you are a compulsive masterbater then, it might be a psychological issue problem you have to address.
Reply by: Ian
Thanks John. I really appreciate your comments.
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