Need help NOW!!! My husband and I have had not the greatest sex life our whole 13 years.
He does not want or desire to make love but maybe every couple of months. But it has now been 7 months and he still
does not desire for intimate love making. He has never pleasured himself and he is not going after anyone else.
I am at a loss to know what we can do about this male performance problem.
When we do finally make love he finishes before he even enters me all the way. Then I never know when it will be that we will have sexually satisfying lovemaking. Can someone help me to know what or if something can be done to help me and my husband.
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I wish I had answers for both of us. I have the exact same problem with my husband. His
testosterone levels are all fine too.
He see's what the effects of not wanting me are having on me and still doesn't seem to try to change things.
If you find out any answers please e-mail me. You are not alone in your desperation of need to be touched, enjoyed and get that kind of attention from the man that you love. Missy
I would encourage him to have his testosterone hormonal level evaluated just in case that is the problem. Another cause may be that due to his pleasuring himself he may avoid sex to save embarrassment.
There are treatments available for premature finish, and impotence, perhaps you can look into some of these for him?
If there is no underlying reason as to why he doesn't want to have sex then make it your mission to raise his libido - tempt his tastebuds so to speak. Sometimes when you have gone without for a long time then you tend to forget how good it can be and not worry about it anymore. If it is just intercourse that he is against experiment with other forms of lovemaking together.
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Posted by: sheila - Is Masturbating Too Much Causing His Impotence?
He told me he used to masturbate alot, and give himself many orgasms and none for me.
Posted by:wife - Lack Of Male Performance Drive In Our Marriage
I just want to be touched again all over like he use to, I`m the one that always issue love making 98% of time and I`m tired of it.
Posted by: Eric
Thanks for that. It's always very hard to find something useful. You all were very helpful.
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