Posted by loving wife:
My husband and I have had not the greatest sex life.
He does not want or desire to make love but maybe every couple of months. But it has now been 7 months and he still
does not desire for intimate love making. He has never pleasured himself and he is not going after anyone else.
I am at a loss to know what we
can do about his performance problem.
When we do finally make love he finishes before he even enters me all the way.
Then I never know when it will be that we will have sexually satisfying lovemaking. Can someone help me to know what
or if something can be done to help me and my husband.
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In men, testosterone levels are critical in the evaluation of impotence and infertility.
If his testosterone level is normal, then you need to look at other possibilities. Stress (physical and mental) can really kill libido.
Psychological mental factors:
Reduction in libido can occur from psychological causes such as loss of privacy and/or intimacy, stress, distraction or depression. It may also derive from the presence of environmental stressors such as prolonged exposure to elevated sound levels or bright light. A comprehensive list of stressors include:
depression
stress or fatigue
paranoia
childhood sexual abuse, assault, trauma, or neglect.
body image issues
lack of interest/attraction in partner
sexual performance anxiety
Physical factors that can affect libido are: levels of available testosterone in the bloodstream of both women and men, the effect of certain prescription medications, various lifestyle factors and, according to studies, the attractiveness and biological fitness of one's partner. Let me know how things go.
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