Posted by loving wife:
My husband does not want or desire to make love but maybe every couple of months. But it has now been 7 months and he still
does not desire for intimate love making. He is not going after anyone else.
I am at a loss to know what we can do about his sexual performance problem.
When we do finally make love he finishes before I can be satified.
Then I never know when it will be that we will have sexually satisfying lovemaking.
Can someone help me to know what or if something can be done to help me and my husband.
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Does your husband have a desire to improve the quality and quantity of your sex life? If not then they may not be a lot that you can do. Does he have a lot of stress in his life, this can affect really affect the libido. I would encourage him to have his testosterone hormonal level evaluated just in case that is the problem. Another cause may be that due to his pleasuring himself he may avoid sex to save embarrassment. There are treatments available for premature finish, perhaps you can look into some of these for him? If there is no underlying reason as to why he doesn't want to have sex then make it your mission to raise his libido - tempt his tastebuds so to speak. Sometimes when you have gone without for a long time then you tend to forget how good it can be and not worry about it anymore. If it is just intercourse that he is against experiment with other forms of lovemaking together.

Reply by: Zoren
Well intimate sex simply cannot be good unless it has a perfect combination of kissing foreplay, physical stimulation and final sexual intercourse.
This entire love making factor should be completely synchronized in order to have better sex. Better sex is all about erotic enjoyment which arouses your partner into multiple orgasms.
Everybody dreams about having and giving the best sex sessions ever. Sex can be a major problem for many people, and not because they aren't getting any, but because they don't perform very well.
He has Male Performance Anxiety Disorder symptoms (when guys have trouble "getting it up").
Usually what happens is that the person is focusing more or less on the final goal, which is orgasm or pleasing the partner with an orgasm, and not really focusing on all the rest of what goes on in the sexual encounter, focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that they're having as opposed to the final goal -- more focusing on the process rather than the end product.
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