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In Reply to: Oral Sex posted by Angie:
First things first, make sure that you are both comfortable. I like my man to be sitting, whether on a chair or the edge of a bed; this way my hands can touch other parts of his body and I have freedom of movement if I need to change positions. I also like it when he is laying on his back with me between his legs.
Start slowly, don't just go straight to his penis, build him up a bit first. Touch his body, I mean really touch his body. Don't take shortcuts by merely rubbing your hands on his stomach a few times. Take the time to explore. Talk to him, tell him what you like about his body, how he makes you feel.
When the time comes to take him in your mouth patience is the key, gently kiss the head of his penis, swirl your tongue softly on the head and taste him. Some men also like you to insert your tongue in the slit (softly though, and not all men like this; ask him). Look up at him sometimes, and believe me a bit of noise works wonders, let him know how much you enjoy giving him head. Slide your fingers down to cup and gently massage his balls. A lot of men also like their ass touched or the area between his ass and balls. (perenium, spelling may be wrong here) Continue to lick and gently suck the head. Lick his penis making it slippery and smooth, pay particular attention to the little v join where the head meets the shaft on the underside of his penis. Open your mouth wider and take his head in your mouth, his penis should be quite wet with your slaliva now. Keeping your lips firm (and wet, always wet) slide your lips up and down his shaft while maintaining suction. Use the hand that is not otherwise preoccupied with his testicles to grip the bottom of his shaft and stroke him at the same time. If you can't take him too deep then place your hand where your 'limit' is, this prevents accidental gagging. Ask him to tell you when he is going to cum (ask before you start!), when he starts to cum relax your throat, this allows the cum to slide down easily. If you don't want to swallow then spit it into a tissue (not on his stomach! lol) or stop blowing him when he is about to come and masturbate him to finish instead.
When he is finished he will appreciate a warm, damp towel for cleaning up.
I often treat my man to a full body massage before a blow job, this way he is relaxed and the anticipation of knowing what is going to happen has him rock hard before I start.
Oh and don't be afraid to gently - and I mean GENTLY - scrape your teeth along his shaft in foreplay. A lot of men love it.
Remember all men are different, and every one has their own things that turn them on. he best way to give your boyfriend what he needs is to ask him what his preferences are. If you are too embarrassed or if he is to have this discussion out of the bedroom try it while you are making love....."Mmmmm, do you like this, or this?"
If your man doesn't cum when you give him a blow job its not the end of the world, think of it as brilliant foreplay!
Most of all - have fun!