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I understand you desire for a child, however, I believe there are several things that need to be addressed BEFORE another pregnancy. First and foremost, you definitely need to seek professional medical advice and consultation with your doctor regarding your past pregnancy problems. PLEASE do find out what caused the still born and the miscarriage if at all possible. Your doctor will be best able to advise you concerning another pregnancy. Also, I would also suggest that you get a second opinion no matter what your current doctor advises. It is always best to have a second opinion.
You and your husband DO need to seek counseling - To help both of you in your verbal communications, to learn how to deal with your past difficult pregnancies, and to basically improve your relationship. Being your husband has said "NO" to your previous commendable attempts to seek counseling, may I suggest that after you see your medical doctor, that you mention to him/her your desire to seek counseling, and your husband's reluctance to do so. Perhaps your doctor can sit down with both of you to discuss any future pregnancies, and at the same time to encourage both of you to seek counseling. It would even be best that an appointment be made by your doctor for a counselor while you both are still in the doctor's office.
Now to your husband's low libido - STRESS is one big killer of libido, be it mental, emotionl or physical stress. Also, a low testosterone level will cause a low libido. I would recommend that your husband visit his doctor and have his testosterone level checked. If it is low, then the doctor can prescribe the appropriate medication. (By the way, stay AWAY from the zinc, there are TOO many bad side effects.) Do NOT play doctor yourself, PLEASE!!! If your husband's testosterone level is normal, then you know the problem is caused by other factors. Again, his doctor can best advise him on how to them proceed.
SOOOooo, (1) see your doctor to determine the cause of your pregnancy difficulties, (2) both you and your husband sit down with your doctor to discuss his/her diagnosis, (3) have your doctor discuss the need for counseling and make an appointment for you and your husband, (3) your husband needs to have his testosterone level checked, (4) from the testosterone test, proceed as directed by his doctor. With the above accomplished, you will then have the knowledge on how to best proceed with your lives.
P.S. - Counselors do not solve problems, they only guide you to a solution. That takes time, it does not happen with just one appointment. It may take 2-3 months to work through whatever issues need to be addressed.
I wish you both the very best.