Posted by Bindii:
In Reply to: tough to orgasm posted by lisa:
Lack of sensitivity could very well be it. Would he be opposed to having something (a finger, plug, vibrating bullet) in his rectum?
Having the prostate massaged really does it for some guys.
Another thought is a control issue. Pehaps he is subconciosly unable to 'let go". (this by the way is one of the biggest problems women have)
If there aren't an therapists in your area, you could try one that willwork with you and hubby by phone.
Hypnotosism is a great idea especially if it is suggested to him that he is comfortable letting go.
You need to discuss your fears of feeling less desirable with your husband, let him reassure you that its not you (because its not), it will only cause problems if you don't allay your fears.
One more thing, has your husband discussed this with his doctor just in case there is some underlying physical cause such as low testerone levels (which can be fixed by injection) etc?
