Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: How To Convince Him To Go To The Doctor. posted by Jennifer:
Jennifer,
You have done your "homework" very well. Thank you for all of the information.
I too am a bit "lost and confused" as a "rock hard" erection for most males seems to be the norm and is so for this oldie. I did and sometimes still do have the problem with "premature ejaculation", but that is a whole different issue.
Your fellow's erection problem may be due in part to nerve endings in the penis, however the "premature ejaculation" issue would seem to discount that. Small blood vessels. I would doubt that would cause the problem, however I'm no doctor. I suspect it is a mental issue. After all the brain is in a way the largest "sex organ" considering the large role it plays in sexual arousal and all those other good things.
I do have a question - Does he masturbate, and if so how often, and does he masturbate just before you have sex? If he does masturbate, may I suggest that he not do so for a week (and no foreplay or intercourse). Then see how your lovin' goes after a week and if it helps him to have a rock hard erection. If it seems a bet better, then have him not maturbate for two weeks (and no sex). Then give it a try again. Hopefully that may help. If there seems to be no change, then I like you would suggest that he see a urologist. Please understand that guys don't like to see doctors about such things, and I'm included. Tell your fellow that you are concerned about him, that you do love him, and want him to fully enjoy the pleasure of having intercourse with you. Try to be as positive as you can be. Show concern without making him feel less of a man.
I wish you the best.
