I really hope that the two of you will talk about this. Tell her it was so wonderful before she had this decrease in libido. Tell her you are concerned about what may be causing this. Tell her you love her very much. Listen to what she says, as she should listen to you. Try to be very positive and understanding.

You might want to try some sensual body cream for her or get her some all natural herbal womens libido menopause treatment pills to increase her desire for sex. My wife has tried them both and they work great.

Posted by littlegreycat:
Do male testosterone levels change as female hormones do?
I hope someone can give me some advice and a solution? I would realy like to hear a man's point of view on this. We've been married for 2yrs, together for 5. I got preg after 7months (together) but our baby was s/b @ 6months. 6months later I got preg again but had a m/c, then another a year later, which was 2yrs ago, we got married since then. Our love life seems to be beset with tragedy! Our sex life has been sporadic ever since the s/b of our baby, but no it is non-existant.

Posted by: Alice
My husband doesn't fancy me for intimate love
I really would be grateful if there was anyone out there who could give me some advice. My husband says it's not just that he doesn't fancy me anymore for intimate love activity, he doesn't fancy anyone (!) so I suspected he could do with some libido lifting supplements (zinc etc) for more drive and confidence in himself. I bought him some, but he won't take them. Also he won't go to his doctor about his lack of desire for making love either. I love him deeply, and cannot understand his reluctance for intimate love, but how can I help him to make love to me?