Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: How can you tell if someone is sleeping with someone else? posted by Dee:
My suggestion is that you not "assume" that because a partner's "staying" power changes that he is now sleeping with someone else. PLEASE, PLEASE don't try to "analyze" the situation from something that you heard. Most of such "stories" are not correct.
About 30% of males have what is know as "premature ejaculation". That means that they ejaculate before they want to. In the case you describe, where the fellow used to "last", and now can't control when he ejaculates may just be a matter that his erect penis (and brain) have "learned" how incredible the sensations will be from your vagina. That "programed" penis/brain now just reacts much much faster than it did originally. That of course is only one of several possibilities. AND yes, maybe he just need your lovin' more often. PLEASE don't assume that from his lack of control he is now sleeping with another. What he needs is your support and understanding, not accusations.
