Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: Re: Never done it before!!! posted by Bindii:
Andy,
Bindii is RIGHT ON!!! Excellent words of advice. I especially liked her comment "Why not be honest with her?" What better time and situation to show her your honesty, openness, and caring. It will give her added confidence that in other things and times she can count on you being honest and open.
Andy, do remember that for most women, and possibly your partner, it is their clitoris that must be stimulated manually/orally in order to have an orgasm. For most women, they do not have an orgasm during intercourse. THEREFORE, do pleassure her during foreplay until she has an orgasm. THEN both of you can enjoy intercourse together. Also, plese do practice SAFE SEX, and that means using a condom. Use a prelubricated one. In addition, apply a small amount of a lubricant (we think Wet Platinum is the very best and is one of the few that is compatible with latex condoms) on the outside of your condom and at the front opening of her vagina. The lubricant will help to reduce friction, increase sensitivity, and reduce the probability of the condom tearing.
As Bindii said, "Don't rush things, take your time when making love", and most of all relax and enjoy. Remember too that no one is an expert the first time we try anything. It takes practice. So by you telling her that she will be the very first one, she will better understand and be more understanding however things go.
RELAX, ENJOY!!!
