Boyfriend Not Interested Anymore In Making Love! "Is It Impotence, Libido Desire, Low Testosterone Or Physicological?"
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Posted by kara111:
my boyfriend of 2 years (he is 56 and i'm 47) rarely wants to make love. i feel like
i'm not desirable anymore. he says i'm not the problem, that he just dosn't have
the desire to perform. what can i do to boost his love making desire and performance? i think i've tried everything.
Is It impotence, libido, low testosterone or physicological? help, please.
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Reply by: bd
It sounds like he may be in need of something to enhance his libido which may be related to physicological emotional factors that both of you have to talk about. Lifestyle changes may be benifical. Quitting smoking, reducing alcohol consumption, proper diet, exercise, and changing prescription medications may help address the libido and impotence conditions.
Nutritional supplements are also helpful to enhance his mood, boost his love making desire, performance and heightened his arousal and impotence.
Reply by: RichT (1)
Hello Kara, Has he had his testosterone level checked recently? And if so was it in the normal range? A low testosterone level will cause a decrease in libido. Then there is the issue of medication. Some medications, especially antidepressants can cause a decrease in libido and cause impotence. And then the really big killer of sexual drive is STRESS, be it physical/mental/emotional/physicological. Have his urologist doctor run a complete exam and do blood tests on him to find out if he has low testosterone (deficiency) levels...
If that is the case, Testosterone Replacement treatment therapy might be benefical.... Thank you.
P.S. Here are some Testosterone video clips links that might help.
Is your husband physically healthy? (and also, as Rich mentioned, not too stressed?) I mean, is the type of guy to come home with a six pack of natty light, a pack of marbies, a bag of greasy burgers, then sit in front of the tv and vegetate and fart all night, or is he the type who comes home, grills up some fresh salmon, makes a salad, makes a fresh spinach, carrot, celery, and parsley juice, then hits the weight bench and works out for an hour? Sexual health and general health are not unrelated. I'll bet even if Laticia Whatshername walked into your living room, frolicking around half-nude, he wouldn't turn into an instant p--- star. He's probably just let his body degrade like most everyone else. Also, you should consider dressing up like a kitty and running around the house giggling. -RB
Hi Kara, I really do sympathise with you, because I am going through the same thing with my fianc'ee. We are both in our 30's and he has always been the same since I met him, we make love about once every six weeks and he never kisses or cuddles me. I suggested he try some Viagra to boost confidence in himself but, he won't go to the doctor. I've been told by other men that I am very sexy but I'm not interested in a intimate relationship with anyone else. I just want my fiancee to make love to me. from Karen
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