Posted by Lee Gramling:
In Reply to: Can't Maintain An Erection, Is It Me? posted by julbox3134:
I'm expericing this with my new boyfriend, who I adore, and who adores me. It happens a great deal. I ignore it. I do not take it personally, I feel he is frustrated enough without me adding to it. After a while of messing around it mostly corrects itself. I think it is just this getting older stuff and one needs to learn new ways to make love with your man and to enjoy one another's bodies. It is new for me too. I seem to have maintianed husbands/boyfrineds in the mid-twenty something age range - hence, no problems. This new guy who I - - well I love him. Is 49. I 'm finding this new way of having sexual/body love making is equally as fulfilling and wonderful as the quick erection sort of young lovemaking. I love this. Try to just enjoy all of him and whatever he does to and for you and maybe he too will correct, if not. love him like he is. We are all getting old.
