Posted by RichT:
In Reply to: Re: Re: boyfriend has lost interest but still masterbates nightly. posted by Ann:
Hello Ann,
You are most welcome. I appreciate the "thank you", and was pleased to know I and the therapist were pretty much on the same wavelength.
Lovin' (sex) is not the only thing in a relationship, however, it is a very big and important part of a relationship in my opinion. Humans DO need to give and receive love, that is just our nature. And one of the important ways is through our intimte giving and receiving of sexual pleasure. It does make a difference in the rest of the day so to speak. I can tell it in my wife. Everything can be fine before our lovin', but after we have truly "felt" the love from each other there is that smile on her face, that closeness that wasn't quite there before our lovin'.
Ann, I believe you have made the right decision. I know you have. As difficult as it may seem/be you need to to let go and find someone who you can fall in love with and who loves you, AND most importantly will intimately give his love to you in a way that you can just "feel" it. And likewise you for him.
I wish you the very best. Now go forward with your life. Llfe is short, every day must be enjoyed to its fullest.
Take care.
