Personal Experience Story Posted by:
anon010
: I am a 41 year old man who, thus far, never had the opportunity to have sexual intercourse, and this now presents itself with a lady I am very fond of and am getting very serious about.
Recently, we "tried" and I was not successful to climax during my love making performance. I identify a few issues which are involved. First, I am not circumcised and I have a tight-ish foreskin, for which I am using Betamethasone Valerate treatment, along with some stretching. Second, and more important, I have obviously been used, all my life this far, to the one person version of self stimulation arousal for orgasms. However, I am somewhat concerned that this has "programmed" me, and that it is now dificult for me to find the attempted intercourse act sufficiently arousing to actually obtain performance abilities to orgasm. In addition, there is the issue that whatever visual fantasies I preoccuiped myself within the one person self stimulation version...it is difficult to get past these, it would seem, in the actual act. My apologies if this is too explicit. It is a genuine and serious problem, I assure you, which is causing me some considerable anxiety when making love. My girlfriend has a high sexual appetite, which means that she wants this "sorted" fairly quickly, which in turn obviously rebounds onto performance anxiety on me....and I am afraid that if I cant get it "sorted" or perform when making love within a reasonable time, that she is going to look elsewhere, if you take my meaning. I hope someone here can help me unravel this problem and offer some sound advice. Do you think Viagra would help? Thank you very much in advance.
1) Avoid self stimulate as this can reduces libido and builds up sperm inventory waiting for bursting relief. 2) Focus more on the relationship and the sensory experiences that you're having as opposed to the final goal . 3) Focus on the process rather than the product There is actually a multitude of different treatments solutions for these orgasm disorder problems.
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